Wedding Favors

So you want her back so bad you will do….ANYTHING? Okay, after you finish reading “Men Are From Mars and Women Are From Venus” do what ISN’T manly and remember it isn’t ‘fixing the backyard fence’ that will impress enough to win her back! Depending on ‘how bad it is’ you may have to start from scratch to get your wife back.

Write Down Your Wife’s Complaints

Do serious thinking…ALONE. Write down the complaints you remember. The ones you remember are ones that were probably REPEATED a lot! It is ALL these issues that you will HAVE to change. If she wanted to go out more, you will have to ‘plan’ to do JUST THAT. It’s not ‘petty’ if it split up your marriage!

Date Again

“Pride cometh before a fall” is a quote from Proverbs. So swallow it, and be patient! Begin dating again. Complete with flowers etc…! No arguing on dates! Your atmosphere MUST read above zero! Listen to her…really listen. Women want a man who HEARS what they say and who CARES.

Do A ‘Personal Make-Over’

Treat yourself…perhaps you got lazy in keeping the hair cut or by how you dress. After you look ‘hotter’ ask her to come help you to pick out some styles! Good for self-esteem, and also for that special SPARK in her eyes too. Everyone gets careless about the ‘looks’ after marriage. But you are starting over, so it counts BIG time, now!

Go to Marriage Counseling

Ass around and find a good marriage counselor. And remember the ACTION is to be ‘taken by you’ not her. This is your ‘battle!’ Inside of the counselor’s office is where you will begin to address the ‘complaints.’ This is a much better setting for potential ‘disagreement’ than your dates. With the help of a pro you will be able to address all concerns in a ‘positive’ way. Leave the issues lay within those doors for a while!

Consider or Plan Big Changes!

Everyone gets comfortable in life sometimes…TOO comfortable. Change major things especially IF they were ‘issues’ in the split-up, but perhaps even if they weren’t! Moving, changing jobs or taking up passionate hobbies can make the ‘old life she left’ look brand new again…and inviting!

There are no guarantees in life, but with dedication is these five proven techniques to get your wife back can work! I am willing to bet ‘having the love of your life and your family back’ is worth it! How do I know…your reading this!

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