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The Path To Forever: How To Have A Happy Marriage That Lasts Till Death Do Us Apart?

Most men and especially women enter the institution of marriage with starry dreams in eyes and sentimental trash clouding the vision. But once the honeymoon period is over, the stark reality starts sinking in – that marriage has a lot less to do with love and more to do with practicality, compatibility, managing household chores and finances, looking after the kids and balancing work with family life!

As romance begins to slip out of your lives,you start wondering,is this all that marriage has got to offer.

First of all, let me dispel the myth that you will find “happiness” in marriage. Marriage in itself does not contain happiness. You have to find that happiness within you and work towards that happiness. It is not served to you on a platter.

Romance is bound to fizzle out after sometime, but it is your duty to revive the romance from time to time. The longevity of marriage depends on the intimacy level between the couple. Do all that you can to keep alive the intimacy. First and foremost, treat each other as friends’ or rather best friends instead of looking up at each other like husband and wife.

This will help both of you to open up and share everything, from office gossip and celeb gossips to neighborhood scandals and financial worries, work pressure or whatever is bugging your mind or you may share all the trivialities of the day once you hit the bed at the end of the night. And make sure you keep these communication lines open all your life.

No matter how busy you both are, kiss and caress each other, pat each other’s backs, steal a few quick smooches, indulge in quickie sex that won’t take up more than 10 minutes of your day, send each other naughty text messages and mails from office and other such silly things to beat the blues of a crazy day.

Take frequent holidays, I mean as much as your busy schedules permit you and fly off to exotic romantic destinations minus the kids or take an adventure trip together or take a cruise trip or simply do something rocking that you had never tried out before. This will work wonders for your relationship.

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