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How Does A Passive Aggressive Husband Need His Victim Wife?
How Does Your Passive Aggressive Husband Need You?
A most frustrating aspect in living with a passive aggressive man is that he doesn’t follow through on his agreements and promises. He takes on big projects but doesn’t finish them, then tends to feel put upon or hostile if someone else tries to finish it. He often ignores the constant reality of his irresponsibility and withdrawal, as perceived by his frustrated wife.
Does He Ever See Her Frustration?
Not any longer. In the face of her evidence, he will again deny it by changing the facts, as to support his logic. He is doing all this theatre for what purpose?? How to understand his communication style when it frustrates the wife’s expectations?
People have human needs, among them needs for love and connection, and thus need to be in touch with each other. How come he thinks he can get satisfaction to his search for love and connection by being hostile?.
As he developed a toxic image of what a relationship is, he is now trying to duplicate the kind of relationship he learned being a child, this time with another grown up, with himself playing the controlling role. He needs to pick up a woman who will agree to be on the receiving end of his disowned anger, so he can play out the dynamics of his childhood…
He needs a good, intelligent adversary to provide him with expectations and demands he will then resist and warp, as he plays the interpersonal routine he learned with his first family.
She Needs To Feel Needed!
She grew up in a home where she was relegated and not appreciated…always in a little corner. When she wanted to be seen, someone stole the focus off her. So, here and now, with this difficult man, she believes that this is her opportunity to rescue him by offering him so much love he would not be able to resist.
This kind of relationship becomes a constant exercise on keeping her -his partner- at bay while occasionally seducing her to keep her somewhat interested. If she continues seeing him as a prisoner, then she will keep attempting to send him lots of her love She will not be easily disappointed by his coldness, and will continue sending him her love and attention
Even when he sets up experiences to get her to reject or deprive him, (so then he can blame her for his dissatisfaction), she prefers to play along. If she would be happy with herself, then she could free herself from fear of loneliness. She decides to waiting for him longer. He is incapable of sharing intimacy with her.
Accepting this fact can take her from feeling lonely and depressed in this marriage, to angry at him. She gets more angry when he withdraws from the conversation. Watching her anger, he tends to withdraw and be silent, which enrages her more. This pattern is formed y connection followed by withdrawal.
Why Is This Seesaw Between Anger And Depression Functional To Her?
How much does she need to be with someone who will frustrate her??
Does she tend to repeat the rejection received in her childhood?
Frustration of emotional needs is what she understands, so she provokes her husband to frustrate her emotional needs?
In repetitive scenes from this script, you can see her self-esteem reduced to zero as her frustration and anger turn to rage when she feels again unable to attract a direct commitment from a loving man. There is not an inevitable linkage between the way she grew up and the way now she is treated. Perhaps raising her self-esteem would stop this cycle and make her less needy and more worthy of respect and appreciation by any partner.
Nora Femenia, Ph.D. is a well known coach, conflict solver and trainer, and CEO of Creative Conflict Resolutions, Inc. She has written postings about happy, healthy marriages and how to enhance marital happiness. Her innovative and compassionate conflict solutions are offered as ebooks, articles and life-changing coaching sessions, from her blog: http://www.creativeconflicts.com
Online Dating Ends In Marriage More Than Meeting In Bars
According to a recent survey by online dating site Match.com, online dating is more likely to end in marriage than meeting someone in a bar. The same report also suggests that online dating services are now the third most common method of meeting people for long-term relationships and marriage.
The reasoning behind this statement is that online dating allows you to find out far more about the other person before you even go on a date with them. This means you already know a certain amount about each other, making it more likely that you’ll get on and form a long-term bond when you do meet up.
You can very quickly and easily find out a lot about a person via online dating sites, including a person’s values, goals, likes, dislikes, political views and other elements that will help you decide whether or not you’re likely to get on with someone, before you’ve even talked to them.
A lot of people would think of online dating to be a more sensible approach to finding your other half than simply dating people. Because of this, online dating has become far more popular with people looking for a serious, long-term relationship and is particularly popular with older women seeking men.
Meeting someone in a bar or pub for the first time can often be awkward if you don’t get along or find you have nothing to talk about, and this one bad experience could end up lowering your confidence and affecting future dates. Talking to somone for a decent amount of time before you meet them in the real world gives you a much better idea of how well you’ll get on.
It would also be fair to suggest that those who join these dating sites are generally more including towards long-term relationships, meaning you’re more likely to meet someone else with similar values and goals on these sites that in a bar.
The Importance Of Alcohol Rehabilitation And How Mental Health Problems And Alcoholism Regularly Result In Marital, Friendship, Relationship, And Divorce Problems
Miss Benning was a health teacher at the largest private high school in the local community. Even though she had been teaching for only four years, she had already achieved a reputation as an educator with a teaching methodology that encouraged and stimulated pupils to learn and to think.
As an illustration, one Wednesday morning at 11:30 she addressed her pupils and said the following: “For the next four or five days we are going to learn about some basic alcoholism facts from a more wind-ranging perspective and we are also going to learn about several of the most basic signs of alcoholism from a more specific viewpoint.”
“Not all of these alcoholism signs will positively establish that someone with a drinking problem is an alcohol addicted person, but the more signs that a drinker displays, the stronger the probability that he or she is an alcoholic.”
Miss Benning then told the the pupils that each pupil would be held responsible for investigating four alcoholism signs and then presenting his or her results to the other members in the class via a twenty-five minute oral presentation.
The Students are Energized About Giving An Extensive Presentation to Their Fellow Students About The Signs of Alcohol Addiction
After learning about the diverse signs of alcohol dependency for a number of days, the time had finally come for the individual presentations. It was at once noticeable that her pupils were thrilled about the subject because the information that they presented was first-rate. To say that Miss Benning was pleasantly surprised with the eagerness manifested by the pupils in her classroom concerning this subject could not be overstated.
The day after all of the pupils completed their presentations, Miss Benning passed out a sheet of paper with a list of all the alcoholism signs that were presented and discussed in class and in the presentations. Miss Benning then asked the pupils in her classroom to go over the list and rank the top nine alcohol addiction signs that were most indicative of alcohol dependency. After roughly ten minutes, Miss Benning collected the pieces of paper and explained to the pupils in her classroom that after she analyzes the results, she will present her findings the next school day.
There was some real excitement by the pupils while they were exiting Miss Benning’s classroom. One could swear that her students couldn’t wait for the next day to arrive so that they could learn about the results of their in-class research.
The Students Compare Their Numbers With the Evaluations From A Panel of Alcohol Dependency Professionals
When the next school day came, Miss Benning passed out a sheet of paper that listed the top five alcohol addiction signs according to the pupils’ rankings. Next to these results, she included another column that was labeled “experts’ response.” She then informed the pupils in her classroom that the numbers in the second column she added were the responses that were given by a panel of alcohol dependency specialists.
Miss Benning told the students in her classroom to go over the information on the sheet of paper she passed out and then to raise their hand if they had any concerns, questions, or issues. Within 30 or 40 seconds, virtually every pupil in the classroom raised her or his hand. It was evident that the pupils had some issues, questions, or concerns about their results versus the answers given by the professionals. For instance, just about every person in the classroom disagreed with the highest ranked answer given by the professionals, that is, “Do you feel very sick when you abstain from drinking?”
The Essential Difference Between Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism is the Physical Addiction That is Experienced With Alcoholism and Not With Alcohol Abuse
Miss Benning then explained to the students in her class why this answer was the most accurate sign of alcohol addiction. She pointed out the fact that the principal difference between alcohol abuse and alcohol addiction is the physical addiction that is experienced with alcohol addiction and not with alcohol abuse.
In effect this means that when an alcohol addicted individual suddenly stops drinking, he or she will go through alcohol withdrawal symptoms.
Miss Benning then informed the pupils in her classroom that alcohol withdrawal symptoms are responses by the brain and by the body to the deprivation of alcohol to which they had become accustomed. Stated another way, alcohol withdrawal symptoms are messages from the brain and from the body telling an alcoholic that something is dreadfully incorrect and needs to be rectified. These signals consist of a number of painful, dangerous, and uncomfortable withdrawal symptoms that can potentially result in a fatality if the proper treatment is not promptly received.
Miss Benning then discussed the multitude of alcohol withdrawal symptoms that can be gone through when an alcohol dependent individual suddenly stops drinking.
The point that Miss Benning tried to underscore was this: an alcohol abuser can experience almost any and every one of the alcohol dependency signs that the students had ranked, but the one symptom or sign that few, if any, people who engage in alcohol abuse ever experience is alcohol withdrawal symptoms.
To articulate this as precisely as possible, Miss Benning stressed the fact that alcohol abusers, unlike individuals who are alcohol dependent, are not alcohol dependent and as a result, when they stop drinking, they almost never suffer from alcohol withdrawal symptoms.
The Pupils Believe They Have Uncovered A Discrepancy With the Findings From The Council of Drug and Alcohol Addiction Authorities
The pupils also had a problem with the second ranked answer given by the drug and alcohol addiction specialists, specifically, “Have you ever had a drink the first thing in the morning to get rid of a hangover or to steady your nerves?”
Miss Benning informed the pupils in her class that this sign does not automatically suggest that the problem is alcohol addiction, but that it does highlight the need that people who are addicted to alcohol have to drink in order to avoid alcohol withdrawals.
After Miss Benning explained the importance of alcohol withdrawal symptoms in the life of the person who is addicted to alcohol, the pupils started to understand the basic difference between alcohol abuse and alcohol addiction.
To add a sense of closure to the subject matter, Miss Benning asked the pupils in her class to take out a piece of paper and answer the following question: “if every person who is alcohol dependent knew about every one of the alcohol withdrawal symptoms and alcoholism signs we have studied, what percentage of them do you think would get alcohol dependency treatment?”
After approximately one or two minutes, Miss Benning asked for the students’ responses. While many pupils figured that approximately 75 to 85 percent of people who are alcohol dependent would ask for alcoholism rehabilitation if they knew about the facts related to alcoholism signs and alcohol withdrawal symptoms, most of the students reasoned that this number would not be less than 65 percent.
The Pupils Were Shocked to Discover That Only 25% of Alcoholics in the U.S. Get Alcohol Dependency Treatment
To the surprise of most of the students, Miss Benning acknowledged that according to various scientific investigations, only 25% of the individuals who are alcohol dependent in the United States ask for alcoholism rehabilitation. This surprised most of the pupils because they thought that first-hand knowledge of the overwhelming statistics and facts correlated with alcohol dependency would motivate the majority of the people who are addicted to alcohol to obtain alcoholism rehab.
Miss Benning then stated that people who are alcohol dependent not only need alcohol on an everyday basis in order to function but they also need alcohol on an everyday basis so they can stay away from possible alcohol withdrawal symptoms. Apparently, the alcoholic’s need to drink on a daily basis is more powerful than logic or facts. Undeniably, since the desire for alcohol is “reality” to the person who is addicted to alcohol, this is a demanding issue that is difficult to negate.
The Combination of Alcohol Dependency and Mental Health Issues Commonly Results in Marital, Friendship, Relationship, and Divorce Problems
Lastly, Miss Benning explained to her pupils that it is relevant to understand that alcohol addiction and diverse mental health problems such as depression are highly interlinked. In addition, the incidence of mental health problems and alcohol dependency commonly result in marital, relationship, divorce, and friendship problems.
The Pupils are Eager to Learn About Alcoholism Signs and Symptoms in Today’s Society
A few minutes later the bell rang, indicating the end of the class. Based on the enthusiasm displayed by the students when they were leaving the room, Miss Benning recognized that she had stimulated and encouraged the students in her class to stop and think about an essential health and social problem that exists in our society.
Relationships And Why They Don’t Always Work Out
More than half of all marriages end up in a divorce so why are we so bad at makes choices when it comes to who we want to be with? Surely you’d like to think that you’ll meet the person of your dreams and stay with them for the rest of your lives? You might meet the best PLR salesperson with a really high IQ yet they go on and do something really dumb like cheating on you.
So why stray or look elsewhere? Why do people cheat? Why bother entering into a relationship especially if after a long time one of you goes and throws it all away.
Some relationships can start off being built on out of pity, you might feel sorry for someone who then becomes really attached to you, you may feel no one else likes you or ever will so why not stay with one another.
The problem with doing that is that your relationship is built on emotions and nothing else. A year down the line you might realise that you are not socially compatible but you put up with it, another year down the line you may find out you are not sexually compatible so that part of your life dwindles and dies out.
Your partner may be at work all day and night messing around with their plug and play profit system just to avoid coming home to someone who they have nothing to talk to about and nothing in common, it’s not even as if you can just cuddle up because the romance has died too.
It is a real shame when this happens but it is a common thing, human nature takes over and we also get very complacent we take each other for granted rather than trying to see things from someone else’s point of view we just use home as a place to sleep, eat and drink, more of a hotel than a home, so going off and having an affair just ends up being a release of frustration.
So the next time you’re sat at work making a big decision about investment in stocks and what might be sat waiting in the oven for dinner remember that talking is going to always be the better option. It might not fix things but it is going to make them a heck of a lot easier on the both of you in the long run and you can get on with your lives.
A Married Couple Gets Hyper About Their Abusive And Irresponsible Drinking And Wonders If They Display Any Alcohol Dependency Signs
Sarah and Jerry have been married for three years. They wanted to have some fun and excitement before they decided to have children and so they purposely fashioned an especially active social life.
The chief difficulty, it needs to be pointed out, is that nearly everything they do with their family and friends somehow includes drinking. For instance, all of the happy hours, sporting events, family get-togethers, parties with friends, and dinner engagements they patronize somehow include drinking.
Sarah and Jerry Start to Perceive Some Obvious Alcohol Related Issues That are Linked to Their Abusive Drinking
If they were casual drinkers, this wouldn’t be such a big problem. Because they drink rather excessively, however, they are starting to see some noticeable alcohol-related difficulties in their lives.
For example, just two weeks ago Jerry was placed in custody for a second DWI and has been shirking responsibilities at work due to alcohol-related health problems. Moreover, Jerry’s last three performance assessments at the office have been less than passable and he has begun to fail to remember what he says or does when he drinks. As a final point, Jerry has been experiencing sleep-related problems and his family is starting to exhibit anxiety about his drinking difficulties.
Sarah, on the other hand, has been feeling disheartened with life and to cope with these feelings, she has been drinking more habitually than any time in the past six months. In addition, Sarah has been getting more than a few throbbing headaches and suffering from awful hangovers because of her drinking. Lastly, Sarah has been feeling appreciably less energetic when she gets up in the morning, she has been getting to work late at least once per week, and she has been receiving some harsh criticism from her friends, family members, coworkers, and relatives about her irresponsible drinking.
Watching the TV and Accidently Finding A Captivating Documentary About the Signs of Alcoholism
One Sunday evening while watching TV, Sarah and Jerry accidently discovered an enchanting program about the signs of alcoholism.
This television special was a real jolt to Sarah and Jerry because more than a few of the alcoholism signs that were talked about looked like they were unshakably correlated with several of the alcohol-related drinking problems Sarah and Jerry had been going through.
A Frank Dialogue About Drinking Situations Discloses Alcohol Related Relationship, Financial, Legal, Health, and Employment Problems
After watching the television special, Sarah and Jerry determined that they needed to have a straightforward talk about their drinking behavior. They both concurred that most, if not all, of their social pursuits somehow involved drinking, that they were drinking abusively, and that as a couple, they were beginning to see alcohol related health, financial, legal, employment, and relationship problems for the first time since they were married.
With thoughts of the TV special still running through her mind, Sarah asked Jerry if some of the alcoholism signs they have been manifesting could mean that they are dependent on alcohol or maybe becoming alcohol dependent. Jerry didn’t know the answer to Sarah’s inquiry and so he recommended that they make an appointment with one of the doctors at the local substance abuse treatment facility to find out more about the severity of their drinking issues.
Attending To Your Drinking Problems Might Reduce Your Sense of Dread and Give You Some Quietude
Ironically, although their drinking circumstances hadn’t yet changed, it was plain to see that Jerry and Sarah were at least focusing on their drinking difficulties, they were eager to find out more about their drinking circumstances, and they were interested in finding out how they could significantly lessen or do away with the drinking-related difficulties that had started to intensify.
When Sarah and Jerry went to bed that night, they determined that the next morning, Jerry would call and schedule an appointment for both of them at the drug and alcohol rehab clinic located just South of the State Capital. After they promised one another that they would do whatever it takes to deal with the alcohol-related problems that had developed in their lives, they truly had the most energizing night’s sleep they could think of in the last eight months.
Just before he fell asleep, Jerry turned to Sarah and stated how simple it is to lessen one’s nervousness and in point of fact experience a degree of peacefulness by coming to terms with one’s problems head-on and making a decision to do something affirmative about them.
The Alcohol Related Problems And Alcohol Related Deaths That Are Associated With Heavy And Hazardous Drinking And The Enhanced Dating And Marital Relationships That Are The Upshots Of Alcohol Treatment
How many children are born each year with fetal alcohol syndrome? How many people’s lives are cut short due to excessive and abusive drinking? How many people get injured or lose their lives in alcohol related traffic accidents every year? How many individuals lose their lives every year because of drinking problems? How many junior high, high school, and college students lose their lives every year due to an alcohol overdose? How many people are the victims of alcohol related crime or violence each and every year? How many people face serious consequences in their lives because they received a DUI conviction? How many people die each year from a condition that is totally preventable, such as alcohol poisoning? On an annual basis, how many alcoholics fail to get the professional alcohol treatment they need?
Why Would Anyone Want to Drink in an Excessive and Irresponsible Manner?
So what’s the point in asking these questions? Basically to highlight the destructive and devastating nature of unhealthy drinking. Indeed, and based on the above questions, I wonder why anyone would choose to drink in a hazardous and irresponsible manner.
Stated more forcefully, with the host of relationship problems, employment difficulties, legal proceedings, health dilemmas, and financial issues that are associated with alcoholism and chronic alcohol abuse, why would any individual with average intelligence want to drink in a hazardous manner? In fact when some of the above topics are examined more closely, hazardous drinking becomes more illogical and makes even less sense.
Wouldn’t you think that alcoholics would be able to see some of the alcohol symptoms that they exhibit? In a similar manner doesn’t it seem logical to think that many more families would involve themselves in an alcohol intervention for the individual in the household who is an alcoholic or an alcohol abuser? What is more, wouldn’t you think that people who drink irresponsibly would try to learn more about their drinking behavior by reading about various alcohol related statistics?
After reviewing the alcohol dependency and alcohol abuse research findings, the point is so critical that it needs to be stated again: With all of the dangerous and unhealthy consequences that are directly or indirectly correlated with continuous and repetitive alcohol abuse and alcohol dependency, why would any person want to engage in careless and hazardous drinking?
What Can be Done About the Widespread Nature of Alcohol Abuse and Alcohol Addiction in the U.S.?
So what can be done about the pervasive nature of alcohol abuse and alcohol addiction in the United States?
- Our students need more relevant and more meaningful preventative and educational approaches and methods so that more students at all grade levels, including those at college, are “reached.
- In a similar way, our students need to learn how to become problem solvers in life rather than getting easily drawn to the “instant gratification” and the “quick fix” of an alcohol or drug abuse ”high” or “buzz”.
- Individuals who are alcoholics or alcohol abusers need to look look at themselves frankly and ask why they are not getting the professional alcohol therapy they require.
- Society needs to get the message to more people about the damaging and debilitating effects of hazardous and abusive drinking.
There’s Room For Hope if Those Who Engage in Abusive and Unhealthy Drinking Can Become Motivated to Get the Alcohol Treatment They Require
There’s a lot of room for hope and optimism if individuals can start drinking in moderation and those who engage in hazardous and abusive drinkingcan become persuaded to get the alcohol rehab they require. Indeed, why put your loved ones through turmoil, pain, and suffering because of your continuous and repeated drinking when you have the power to control your life by drinking responsibly or even refraining from drinking if you cannot control your drinking? From another vantage point, why not improve upon your marital and dating relationships that are the effects of alcohol therapy?
When Drinking Causes Problems With Your Health And With Your Life That Can Lead To Marital And Dating Difficulties
How do you know that you have a drinking problem? When is it apparent that you are engaging in abusive drinking?
If you have hopelessly struggled to quit drinking or if you promised yourself that your drinking days are terminated and then you were made aware that you were drinking abusively just a few days later, chances are quite good that you have drinking problems. The fundamental idea is that if you have attempted to quit drinking and cannot complete the task, then your drinking is controlling you, instead of the other way around.
In a similar manner, if it takes increasingly more amounts of alcohol to get the same “high,” more likely than not you need to recognize the fact that you have a drinking problem.
You may be telling yourself that the reasoning for your drinking is so that you can lessen your nervous tension or get rid of the sorrow or depression that you feel. In much the same way, you may be trying to stay away from a hurtful situation and may be looking for something more useful, more favorable, or less mournful.
As you maintain your drinking, conversely, you will become aware that drinking does not bring forth the same high and you will also comprehend that drinking doesn’t help eliminate whatever led to your distress in the first place. You may also notice that the more excessively you drink, the more depressed you feel.
As you continue to drink in an excessive manner, sadly, you may become alcohol dependent and, as a consequence, you may add another critical difficulty to manage rather than becoming aware of more successful and healthy ways of managing your alcohol generated problems.
When an Alcohol Assessment is Necessary
If you have decided that you have a drinking problem, maybe the most expedient thing you can do for yourself is to call your physician or healthcare professional and schedule an appointment for a complete physical and for an assessment of your drinking activities.
If you honestly think that you have a crucial problem with your drinking, it might be a good idea to get prepared to hear that you need to get alcohol reahbilitation.
At this point, what are your choices? You can definitely decide against seeing your family doctor and persevere with your pattern of hazardous drinking.
It actually doesn’t take a nuclear physicist, nonetheless, to realize that repeated, heavy drinking, if left untreated, will worsen over time and most likely bring about an early death. Consequently, your most positive alternative is to address your drinking situation and obtain the alcohol rehabilitation you require.
The Pretext of the Functioning Alcohol Dependent Person
It is somewhat paradoxical to note the fact that numerous alcohol dependent individuals lead busy and active lives and have families, jobs, houses, vehicles, pets, and any number of material possessions similar to non-alcoholics.
Many of these “functional” alcohol dependent individuals may have never been arrested for drunk driving and may have been lucky enough to avoid all alcohol induced legal issues. In spite of this fortunate circumstance, nevertheless, these alcohol dependent individuals need to drink in order to live on a regular basis while sustaining their facade as they associate with people outside their family.
Ask anyone who has seen them when they are out on a drunken binge or in a drunken stupor or ask a family member about the problem drinker’s alcohol addiction, nonetheless, and they will be quick to state the reality of the drinker’s situation and the essentials about the alcohol addicted individual’s drinking circumstances and about his or her alcohol generated problems.
Why Do Alcohol Addicted People Fail to Recognize Their Drinking Difficulties?
As alcohol addiction research and statistics on alcohol abuse have underlined, no matter how evident the alcohol induced issues seem to those who interact with the alcohol dependent person, alcohol dependent individuals regularly deny that drinking is the origin of their alcohol induced issues. Not only this, but alcohol dependent individuals commonly blame their alcohol induced issues on other people or upon other circumstances that surround them instead of seeing their part in the problem. In a similar manner, alcohol dependent individuals typically manifest marital difficulties and divorce and especially post divorce issues.
The source of the difficulty is that alcohol dependency is a disease of the brain. Once the problem drinker has become dependent on alcohol, he or she commonly resorts to denial, manipulation, and dishonesty as a way of coping with the fact that his or her drinking is out of control. And to make things more problematic, the experience of alcohol withdrawal symptoms frequently thwarts the alcohol addicted individual’s rare attempts to suddenly abstain from drinking. As bleak as the alcohol addicted person’s life is, conversely, the positive news is that professional help is extensively available – if the alcohol addicted individual reaches out and tries to get alcohol rehabilitation.
Conclusion
Conceding the fact that drinking is leading to problems in your day to day functioning is perchance the most straightforward way to find out if you have a problem with your drinking. Stated differently, if your drinking is producing issues with your health, with your employment, in your relationships, with your finances, at school, or with the legal system, then you have a drinking problem that needs to be tackled.
If you have a drinking problem, additionally, this means that you are engaging in alcohol abuse.
While some individuals may be able to recognize their “alcohol signs,” pinpoint their problems, and greatly reduce the quantity and rate of their drinking, other drinkers, to the contrary, need to manage their drinking difficulties by getting quality alcoholism counseling. Furthermore, due to their tendency to deny the facts and warp the truth, alcohol addicted individuals without a doubt need competent alcoholism rehabilitation for their hazardous drinking.
And finally, if you feel more depressed the more you drink, you will probably need to obtain counseling for your problem drinking and for your depression.
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When Irresponsible And Abusive Drinking Results In Serious Health Problems And Marital Conflicts And Problems
For a number of years alcoholism research has demonstrated the fact that there is strong relationship between alcohol addiction and dangerous health conditions and mental health issues such as depression.
For example, in 2005, medical investigation and alcohol abuse and alcoholism statistics demonstrated the fact that that alcohol abuse and alcohol dependency cost the United States an estimated $220 billion on an annual basis. It may be noted that this immense alcohol-related expenditure was significantly more than the cost linked with cancer ($196 billion) or with obesity ($133 billion). While it is pertinent to give emphasis to these facts, it is also noteworthy to point out that an interrelationship exists between all three of these health issues.
That is to say, chronic alcohol abuse and alcohol addiction are also highly correlated with obesity and with cancer.
Certainly, substance abuse investigation has demonstrated the fact that alcohol addiction can increase the risk for different forms of cancer, particularly cancer of the liver, voice box (larynx), kidneys, colon, esophagus, rectum, and the throat. Excessive and repetitive drinking can also result in immune system problems and impairment to the fetus during pregnancy.
Abusive and Excessive Drinking Weakens the Person’s Systems and Organs
What is more, if alcohol dependency continues over a period of years, the person’s body organs will likely be affected in a harmful manner. As an illustration, chronic, hazardous drinking is particularly damaging to the liver since the liver does most of the work of processing the alcohol that has been ingested. Extreme amounts of alcohol kills liver cells and obliterates the ability of liver cells to redevelop. This medical circumstance results in a progressive inflammatory injury to the liver that can in the end lead to cirrhosis of the liver, a serious and possibly lethal medical problem. Abusive, long-term drinking not only can result in dangerous liver damage, but it can also result in damage to the heart and to the brain. Physical damage this serious may be irreversible and may, in turn, lead to severe disease or an untimely death.
The Importance of Alcohol Counseling
It is essential, then, to know how to identify the different alcoholism symptoms and the “alcohol signs” so that the alcohol dependent person can be given the opportunity to seek the professional alcohol treatment he or she needs.
Alcohol Addiction and Sophisticated Brain Exploration
Fortunately, medical investigation is persistently unearthing original and important information. Recent alcoholism exploration provides a first-rate illustration. Stated differently, for roughly the last ten years, complicated brain-imaging scanning devices have verified that continuous and long-term hazardous drinking modifies the constitution of the brain to a substantial extent, thereby resulting in brain disease that can last months, years, or perchance as long as the individual exists.
Stated differently, medical examination has demonstrated that individuals who have been drinking in an excessive manner for an extensive length of time increase their risk for developing lasting and substantial changes in the brain.
This type of damage may be directly related to severe liver disease, to the alcohol’s effects on the brain, or might be indirectly associated with the drinker’s poor overall health.
Abusive Drinking, Malnutrition, and Mental Disorders
As a final example of assorted health problems that are substantially associated with alcoholism, take into account the fact that in accordance with medical examination, the excessive and repeated abuse of alcohol can lead to erosive gastritis, a medical problem that lessens the absorption of vitamins, minerals, and nutrients.
This form of organ breakdown is correlated with malnutrition and to a variety of acute mental and neurological syndromes including memory loss, sleep disturbances, and psychosis such as Wernicke’s Encephalopathy and Korsakoff’s syndrome. This latter medical problem is a long-term debilitating health problem that is epitomized by persistent memory and learning difficulties.
Hazardous and Abusive Drinking Also Leads to Relationship and Friendship Issues and Conflicts
In addition to major health problems, excessive and irresponsible drinking also results in relationship and friendship issues. For instance, people who involve themselves in hazardous drinking often experience sexuality problems, affairs, divorce, and marital issues.
Summary: The Significance of Education
It is obvious that repetitive, hazardous drinking is directly or indirectly linked to many acute medical conditions that can and do result in dangerous illness and premature death. Such information needs to be underlined and presented to everyone in our society, especially to all students, so that a massive amount of individuals will be able to abstain from excessive drinking while others who have a drinking problem will get the quality rehabilitation they require.
Let us look at this with a common sense perspective. Yes, alcohol rehab is important, but alcohol rehabilitation is something that is typically done AFTER the fact. Education, from a different perspective, is something that is done BEFORE the problem materializes. Stated a different way, whereas alcohol treatment is “reactive,” education is “proactive.” It is claimed that both approaches are necessary when discussing alcohol abuse and alcohol dependency.